prostitutes and pornstars

hello eveyrone

its been a while since i've written a blog

and i think its time to stimulate my creative juices and churn out something that can provoke some thought

recently, i read a book called "private dancer"

its essentially about a man who falls in love with a prostitute who on the outside reciprocrates but on the inside is far less innocuous

anyways, this got me thinking about marriage

is it possible to marry someone who was once a prostitute or a pornstar?

but more importantly, is it possible to ever love someone who received money to perform sexual services?

well, i think, to a certain extent, yes

pornstars and prostitute alike due to their long and constant experience with the cock have a different attitude towards sex, its not really a spiritual or a pleasurable activity to them, quite the contrary, its work,

yea i like serving customers at AMF but do i enjoy it? thats the same attitude they have towards sex, its something thats there to put food on the table

i mean you do anything for long enough and you start to derive slightly less enjoyment from it 

consequently, they dont place such a high value on sex, they've experienced all modes of it, good sex, bad sex, great sex, horrible sex, its all just a blur to them, an endless wave of orgasms or more the lack of it followed by a crisp payment of dollar dollar bills.

now taking this mentality into account, when pornstars or prostitutes ever do enter a meaningful relationship, they care ALOT less about the sexual abilities of their partners,

instead, strangely enough, they care more about personality

thus rendering them less superficial and shallow when choosing partners

i mean hey, sex is important in cementing a relationship but its a short term foundation, the physical, sexual element will only get you so far, the long term sustainability of relationships depends vitally on the comptability of both personalities.

so there you have it, 

since pornstars and prostitutes place a far less emphasis on sexual performance as the average joe, they theoretically they'd be far less two dimensional and thus better marriage material

regardless, most people are too insecure and shameful of loving someone who has "made love" with lots of "loves"

but everything has an opportunity cost

how much would you be willing to tolerate in your pursuit of happiness?a