yo sea horses, given my track record with girls, i really have no right to give anyone advice on how to be the best girlfriend and boyfriend
however, i believe i know what quality the best boyfriend/girlfriend need
and that is perception or to be perceptive
this doesnt apply to just relationships but practically every facet of life
the most endearing, the most charming people are the ones that react accordingly to any situation without having been told to
e.g. putting the toilet seat up without having be told to
e.g. paying your child support once in a while
e.g. knowing when to talk and when to be quiet
its important that we act in the appropriate manner without having being told to because...
we humans are naturally deceitful people, we never say whats really on our mind and we do our best to cloud our emotions for fear of repercussions, our behavior is barely ever representative of our mental processes
we simply hope that time will change our significant others behaviors and we feel shamed, silly or having no right to tell them to change their behavior
eventually, a yearning for your partner to be more mature or to change results in despair and eventually you'll part your ways
so if you want a long and lasting relationship, you dont have to be the most attractivest cucumber in the sea or the most talented vagina in the paddock,
all you have to do is to be be very perceptive and attuned to your girlfriend's needs both physically and mentally,
cos a smile, a laugh,a frown paints a thousand words
:)
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