why we shouldn't have premarital sex

in this crazy crazy world

kids these days are frequently cavorting around and having sex with undesirables and blaming it on alcohol

consequently, the unique individuals who yearn to have sex with a virgin after marriage or are awaiting for someone they truly love are in a rather hefty disposition

the thing about virginity is that the longer your a virgin the greater the emphasis and importance you place into it

and the harder and harder it gets to lose it,

therefore, even if you think you want to lose your virginity, subconsciously you dont because your scared that you would lose an attachment that is both precious and distinct.

in addition, there are the insecurities associated with losing yours to one thats probably done it many many times.

all of these feelings reinforce that notion of having sex with a virgin.

now all these emotion are amplified when your in your mid twenties or thirties awaiting that true love with a thickly intact, unbroken hymen

Thus back to the original point, why shouldnt we have pre martial sex

people are attracted to sex because of what we hear about it, the premise of it, people say its fun, therefore we are influenced to think its fun.

however, people truly dont know what sex is until they experience it.

you dont know what characterizes "satisfying" sex and "unsatisfying" sex. if you and your significant other were limited to just kissing until you got married and you jumped on the bed, you guys are going to have no idea what sex feels like, you assume it feels good because of the media and your friends, but your still not sure.

but both of you are absolutely certain that, sex would be more pleasurable then your previous activities,as it is still a step up from kissing.

ill liken it to this

e.g. lets say you watched black and white tv since the dawn of time, then suddenly you get colour tv, would you really care if that tv was a plasma (good sex) or if it was just a normal LCD( bad sex).

you wouldn't because that new thing you experienced is still a step up from its predecessor.

so guys dont be fooled by what everyone says about sex because humans tend to exaggerate alot

and after all that tom-foolery your significant other poses you the question

" how many people have you had sex with before"

wouldn't it be much more romantic to say "only you" as opposed to staring dumbly at her

so kids, dont have sex or you will get chlamydia, and you will die.